[15] The 'Over-Nodding' Problem in Japanese English: How to Master Natural Conversation

Sharing personal experiences with the unique Japanese nodding habit.

Working overseas, it's easy to fall into the trap of nodding excessively, which can interrupt the other person or cause you to miss your turn to speak. The hosts discuss how they've realized the differences in conversational styles across languages through their own experiences. They share personal reflections on the frequency of feedback and the importance of facial expressions while listening.

The key lies in navigating differences in conversational styles.

It is fascinating to hear them point out that the nodding we do to show we are listening can sometimes lead to misunderstandings. They touch on how behaviors we think are helpful or polite in cross-cultural communication might actually be counterproductive. They speak candidly about their own anxieties regarding English and the frustration of trying to adapt to others, only to feel like they are spinning their wheels.

Facing the difficulty of taking the initiative in conversation.

One of the hosts shares a specific incident that occurred during a conversation with a non-Japanese speaker. Reflecting on their confusion regarding the other person's reaction, they explore how to achieve more natural communication and discuss potential shifts in mindset. The conversation goes much deeper, so be sure to listen to the full episode.