I Can't Find a Happy Role Model

Talking about the discomfort I felt toward the existence of role models.

When we see people living happily at work or at home, we might think it's wonderful, but at the same time, don't we often separate ourselves from them by thinking, "That's only possible because it's them"? We tend to subconsciously tuck the lives of others, which appear as complete examples, into an "exception folder" to keep them at a distance. Perhaps by doing so, we are actually running away from confronting our own possibilities.

A profound realization unfolded from a letter sent by Radio Name Fuka-san.

In this episode, a delicate question sent by our listener Fuka-san—"Is it okay for me to rely on others?"—warms the atmosphere of the show. While digging deeper into these words, the personality makes an unexpected comparison to "something." What could that surprising reason be? The perspective that words from someone who is currently lost, rather than complete, perfect answers, serve as a form of "survival confirmation" for others is quite striking.

Let's change how we perceive role models just a little bit.

Perhaps a role model isn't a goal to copy entirely, but rather a form of "permission" to believe that such a future is possible for us, too. In this program, where we cherish unrefined thoughts, grumbles, and musings, the conversation goes even deeper. Please be sure to listen to the full episode.