#100 "Should You Tell Them You're Treating Them Before or After?"
In this episode, we dive deep into the dilemma Inui-san faced regarding the "etiquette of paying" during a night out with junior colleagues. While they had a great time reuniting, the subsequent turn of events led to some unexpected confusion.
Sometimes, the other party's consideration makes it harder to pay the bill.
After Inui-san paid for the first round, the juniors insisted on covering everything for the rest of the night. Inui-san was left wondering if they had actually managed to treat them at all. This highlights the complexity of interpersonal relationships that can't be solved by being smooth alone.
The sense of security in saying, "I'll reach out to you next time."
On the other hand, Hayakawa-san is the type who doesn't mind being treated. The discussion shifts to the perspective of how to resolve the "debt" of the favor, rather than focusing on the monetary loss or gain. We explore how making a promise for the next meeting can help reduce the mental burden on the other person.
By being mindful of the timing, you can help the other person focus on the meal.
Listening to the "trick" Hayakawa-san practices might just bring the psychological distance between the giver and receiver much closer. Please enjoy the episode to experience the delicate nuances of communication hidden behind the casual, everyday act of treating others.
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