#794 Is a Low Voice Always a Disadvantage?
In this episode, the personality Nanbaruwan reflects on her personal experiences with the misunderstandings between her and her husband caused by her natural voice tone. She candidly shares her internal conflict as someone who feels her low voice often leads others to misinterpret her intentions.
My low voice is often mistaken for anger.
It happened when I called a restaurant on my husband's behalf after he misplaced his wallet. Although I successfully confirmed the situation with the staff, my husband misinterpreted my calm, factual tone as being angry. It is frustrating that my emotions are judged by the tone of my voice over the phone, even when I have no such intention.
A single comment created a tense atmosphere.
In the middle of the show, my husband called, and a single remark sparked a deeper emotional disconnect between us. Even when I try to deal with it calmly as "just the usual," it seems he perceives it through a filter that makes him feel blamed. I explain how exhausting it is to analyze the impact of vocal tone while feeling the strain of these interactions.
Reflecting on the difficulty of staying true to my own voice.
Whether in daily conversation or recording for the podcast, even when I intend to be myself, my voice can sometimes be perceived as sharp by others. While struggling with the paradox that being natural can trigger overreactions in some people, I continue to strive to value my own pace. The story goes deeper, so please be sure to listen to the full episode.
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